You know its wonderful being an honest friend to yourself, no I mean it. There are so many beautiful people that cross your path  and its exciting to feel their presence as they pass by and challenging when they stop to look and say hello. What I mean by honest is not to read into their actions and  not bother with intentions  but rather listen observe and if you can smile back go for it. Heres the catch, can you put a handle on the power of need so you can see the person and not the person you need to see? Let me know if you understand the difference that is your relationship with need and the role need plays in your life. If stuck and you live in the Bay Area visit my website go  to Therapy and give me a call.